Wow,, this comes as a shock, so very sorry to hear this, and even sadder it can sooner or later be one of us. . .
Hope it will never be this way, but we never can predict what crap, horrors, that can come our way, saddly putting our lives in our own hands

Hang in there, dear friend, and if I should ever get "there" before you, I will be waiting for you with open arms and yes, a spot at the "table"

Love you,
DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON