I think he realises he has a problem , we are no longer together, I asked him to leave , we have tried all sorts of therapys and councelling , but none of them have worked because he has lied his way through those as well. I am at a loss , I don't think I can help him anymore. he is dragging me down and making me fell so hideous, worthless and unattractive...

he says he has been doing it on a regular basis while looking after our daughter , but he promises she never saw anything, he said he didn't think it was a problem at the time , doing it while she was around , but after I found out and threatened the police he says he now understands it serious... I just dont understand how he could think that was alright . I have said he will not be allowed to look after her until I feel she is old enough to talk to me and explain if she is not happy with something he is doing ....

I feel his problem is getting worse , he has now started looking at teenage girls and I have another daughter aged 19 , he says he has never looked at her in that way but at her friends ....

sorry not coping very well at the moment