Can't explain I am so sorry you are comming up against such displeasure w/ this topic.
It is sad because this is the one place I seek out to not be judged.

I support what you are saying. Porn does have it's place. If used in the right setting. I know that movies in the making can be done under sinceless and tasteless circumstances, drugged, drunken, simply uncooperativeness. I *** ume and hope this is not the kind of content you are talking about.

I do not have a problem w/ my H viewing porn. It's me he comes to bed with. I to view porn so I guess thats why I do not have a problem w/ it. We, my H and I have used it as a tool to advance things in the name of good fun. I have had had 2 partners prior to my H. My H has had one before me. So we are not the most experienced bunch of people. Porn has greately opened the door of communication. Some things are just very hard to explain. What we view together can easily be turned into a topic for discussion or an oppertunity for direction. I personally use frequently "remember when we saw "whatever" try that or thy person is exactly right that is the way things work.

I know this will certinly get this withdrawn and it is not my intent. I have used porn for a therepy like circumstance. I was raped many years ago. I like porn. I know that is weird. But in my alone time I have watched my fair share of female friendly porn. It has helped me see that sex and sexuallity is not something horriffic. It is not "Bad", it is not dirty it is not something to be forced on some one. Sec is something poeple can like. So see this is a Therepy type place. Now pron is used for my personal therepy.