yeah, the funny thing is, his wife knows me and took a whole bunch of books when I was dismantling my late mom's apartment over there.... so he is going to borrow a cot from her as if for me, for the time of my stay, to pretend that he is not sleeping with me. I am like... whatever.... too funny. They see each other several times a year but he plays these funny games with her. Beyond my comprehension. But, none of my business - it is their private life and they decide how to live it. What I need is to make a decision with respect to condom use - that one is not funny.