Support is different for everyone. Since this is a public forum, I tend to believe that users will post whatever they feel is "supportive". And sometimes while that may not be what the poster was wanting, they can have their eyes opened to an unbiased piece of advice, a 2nd or 3rd party, if u will. So much can be misinterpreted through Internet. It would best if the poster asked directly. If u want "hugs", say that. If you don't want objections, say that. Otherwise, people are entitled to, and will, support in the way they feel is correct.