I don't see how saying a person was a "cold turd" is helping her understand her problem... She is an adult... She knows she was wrong when a teen..How she explained to me was was she was saying she knows she made mistakes when a teen... She didn't need her nose rubbed in it by saying she was a cold turd.....I mean come on.... is kind of like a slap in the face.. instead of maybe saying yes, teens do think they know it all but it is part of growing up... and we all make mistakes...

I think talking about mistakes one become vulnerable.. and when one is vulnerable one doesn't need stupid comments like yes you were nothing but a cold turd.... Maybe you can explain to me how saying someone is a "cold turd" when they made mistakes is helping the client understand.. ???My friend is not stupid... .......Maybe the point I am not getting..

I think all of this is bringing up my issues with therapy... which I can say isn't good.....I do think I will suggest she needs to talk about her sessions with someone else... someone who may have a more positive look at therapy in general...because I am the wrong person to tell this stuff to......

I don't want to argue.... everyone has their point of view...k i appreciate your opinion..

maybe I am looking at the so called innocent expression of "cold turd" wrong... what i see is ok lets get a lil frank.. a turd is waste... a cold turd is to be disposed...actually a hot turd is to be disposed of too.. lol . So saying a person is a cold turd is saying you are nothing more than human waste...

.. if a person is going to pay a professional money I should think he could come up with something better than cold turd..... maybe it is just me....

I guess if someone benefits from a T saying they were nothing but a cold turd, so be it...or good for them ... or oo cool .. ty ty mr T for sheding the light on my issues... yes a cold turd... hmmmm tytyt......