I've always had this issue, but never thought about sharing it until now. I haven't had sex in a really long time, but I still have this thing about my nipples (just thinking about it makes me queasy). I can't stand someone else touching my nipples. I feel queasy touching my own nipples, but I did learn a way to work my way to an orgasm; it's just hard putting aside those queasy thoughts and sensations.

Even if a guy is doing everything right, once he goes for my nipples (hands, fingers, mouth, teeth, whatever), I kind of freeze up. I have never told anyone this; I just gritted my teeth and pretended I liked it, even though in reality, I wanted him to stop immediately. It just makes me feel nauseous. I feel like I'm "supposed" to like it, and I don't want to hurt the guy's feelings, so I just play on, praying that I don't actually throw up (so far, so good). But I get turned off right away.

I know part of why I don't say anything is because, despite all the advice to not do anything you don't want to do, many guys will dismiss you altogether if you don't do certain acts.

Does anyone else feel this kind of sensitivity when it comes to action on your nipples? (Males welcome to answer, too.)