It makes so much sense. What you have all said makes so much sense. Just yesterday my sister and her husband invited us to spend New Yeaars with them and needed a head count for reservations. I asked, he said the same maybe, then said no. He saw my disappointment which I feel bad about because my he sees my emotions more than anyone on earth. I cannot use my poker face with him and get away with it. Anyway, he had a change of mind and told me to go ahead and schedule him in. He then explained that he doesn't want to disappoint me or let me down if at the moment of departure he falls into a mood. I am willing to take the chance. I love him and if he can't make it, I will be sad but I must respect his decision.