Are you talking about yourself? if not, why are you posting? If so, what does that mean? Point is moot for me, I can't block. But I don't answer everybody either. That HAS been a change; I used to feel obligated, I don't anymore. I used to think "everyone" would die without my help; I also used to truly believe everyone was being totally honest in their posting. Now if I smell a rat, I ask, or I simply don't respond. If a thread seems repetitive to me, I don't respond - I don't need to get sucked in; I didn't sign anything when I joined that promised I would respond to what I perceive as people's mind games - same as if I were in group therapy or DBT. So I would say, if this is an issue for you, you might have a problem with being overly responsible, as that was my dx - thinking you can make things right that are out of your control. If you work on that, or if you work on not responding, you might kill two birds with one stone.
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