Also, the girl needs a Pap smear now that she is sexually active. I am not judging the kids, but no one knows where either of them has been, so either one of them could have HPV (Human Pappiloma Virus) and not know it. Of course, the male will "just" carry it. She may "just" get cervical cancer. Now a life may be in jeoporday. I would keep that in mind when I consider having a discussion with all parents with/without kids. If the kids want to act like adults then they should be able to have adult conversations.

I would guess 60% of the Paps I do on teens that claim they have had only one sexual encounter test positive for HPV. They have NO IDEA what that means for them. They cannot comprehend what it means at that age.

And, know what the law in your state is pertaining to rape/sexual assault/indecency with a child.