It was a great thing until I breast fed my 3 children. After 6 years+ of them being off limits it's not something I like anymore. It's kinda weird and It just doesn't do anything for me. If my H wants to use them as his own persomal playground and they do somthing for him I'm usually willing to tolerate it. But once he asked after 4 years "Do you not like this anymore" when I said it does nothing for me. He doesn't usually go there.