Thanks you guys. I feel kind of as though I had been violated, it's a strange feeling, it's funny how she's manipulating this entire thing by ignoring me and acting though I'm in the wrong.....I'm so mad about that. I want to write her a letter, call her, go over to her house and tell her off, but hell, I think it's really done between her and I this time. Of course she will be calling when she needs something, but I won't be answering. I just wish my step dad would grow some balls and defend me, instead he whimpers in the corner like a little b word. He's lost all dignity, he's desperate and puts up with my mom because he has no where else to go....but damn, this is me!.....He should defend me, I've been more a daughter to him then his own blood, I've known him since I was 12! I hope somebody sticks up for me, so far my sister did nothing, and of course my husband did nothing.