Yeah- my last partner I broke it off with when they called me ugly, and the previous one when he got physical with me. Honestly, I don't think it's a pattern or something you can predict in some ways. I don't think there are that many truly good partners out there.

This is the first time he has called me a dumb ****, but not the first time I have been bothered by his anger. He is in therapy to fix it. He always says I'm sorry I'm sorry but I end up crying a few times a week over him, feeling sad and empty over the fights he picks. The rest of the time it's ok and even good. He's not adult and he doesn't control his anger even though he should. He says he is sorry but then he just doesn't. That bothers me because I think that should be a prerequisite to trust the other person to be able to control their anger and not get mad over little things.

It will be fine, there are plenty of other fish in the sea I just feel so hurt and sad right now. Truth be told I don't know if I will leave him... I never do until it hurts too much not to. I just don't have much common sense like I said before so it's partly my fault.