Yes and how my friend. I am in an identical situation, but you know what? You are the sunshine on his cloudy day. I hear BPD people are very loving, the best love there is possible. You make his world go round and he would have it no other way beloved. Don't forget that on the cloudy days. You rock his socks! And he wouldn't be so blind to forget it, or else his name wouldn't be "Your husband". It would most certainly be "My Ex" lol. You rock and you know you do. Keep your head up my friend. Yours truly, Lightbulb7