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Originally Posted by iluvdukie1
I am just wondering... I do NOT want to have sex, I am WAY too young for that. I have no interest in it, but I am just curious. I know that if I did have sex, I would always regret it (at this age, if I was older and an appropriate age, then no). Also, I would be way too uncomfortable to be wearing no clothes, but I just want to know. What age do girls usually become sexually attracted to guys? Does anyone know? Cause I was just wondering if there was a certain age that most girls start being interested in that stuff. JUST curious, that is all.
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For me, I was about 14 when I started to get that kind of curiousness. However, I wasn't ready. I had a "boyfriend" and he really wanted to. My ex-bestfriend and her boyfriend (who was friends with the guy I was with,) did it and then they broke up and she got with another of their friends and did it with him, too....
That just seemed.... uncool to me, really. I mean, we were only 14! She became a real guy hopper. But me, I wasn't ready and I told the guy that I wasn't, so he dumped me!
But you know what??? I did the right thing. I wasn't ready. I didn't love that guy. He wasn't even really nice to me or anything.
After that I didn't date anyone until I was 18, and there was yet another guy who wanted that from me, but I wasn't ready. And I told him no, and he dumped me too.
Which just shows you how low of quality he was, really. So I'm glad I didn't do it with him, either.
I was 19 when I lost my virginity to a boy I really loved and thought I was going to marry. It didn't work out. And it broke my heart. But, my heart healed and I don't regret waiting until I was older and for someone I loved, even though it didn't work out. I don't regret not having a ton of boyfriends or not having tons of sex in high school. I feel good knowing that I waited.