I hope so too Dark Heart X. Evidently, over the years of marriage and child rearing, my friend and his now ex-wife were all about the money. He did whatever it took to continue living bigger than he could. His wife always new he was bipolar and spent right along with him. She left him because she couldn't deal with him anymore and because there was no money and a big black hole of debt. She dangles their shared dog from week to week and all I can see from the outside looking in is a family who never educated themselves and took him for granted that he could just "get over it". Half the time, they don't believe that he needs to be medicated and I often hear from others that they think he should be off all meds by now and get a job. Really??? I'm so frustrated by it all. No one in his immediate family seems to or want to understand his disposition. He has been left out to dry.......It just breaks my heart..I bet that if he were to come into money, they would all be back and still not care about his mental health. How sad!!!!