I hear you loud and clear. So many losses and suffering and where is the rest. I guess the rest is not as obvious and easy to spot, my take on it. Like you and DH and so many others I have lost so much, there can be times when there really seems to be no good coming. And yeah it gets tiring, really tiring, but we still go forward, and we get through what comes. The good stuff just isn't so flashy and in your face, but it is there.. somewhere.

I am glad you are coping, you know life really is not fair. It just isn't...