Yes, he can't commit now. That's a fact. I am just wondering if I should wait a little bit.
Well, dealing with him helps me understanding issues I have.
For example. I noticed that we have a kind of dependance : he is attracted by the fact that he thinks I need to be saved and I am attracted by the Hero syndrom. We found each other! Of course that's not the only thiing. The problem may lie here and I will repeat this behavior with someone else unless I get at the bottom of it here and now and I do believe he can help me do this.
It is painful but maybe necessary ?
The bottom line is our relationship was destructive because we both built on bad ground. He is not the sick one and I am the sound one. That's a fact and I know it.
He is helping me to understand myself and vice-versa.
The more I am reading and thinking about this, the more it makes sense!!!! It is like a jigsaw coming together. I am a bit relieved that I start to understand. I am on the right track here!! Please keep giving me advice. I just read a fairy tale I have written and everything's in there.