oh geez.....((((((HUGS))))) what an ordeel. is there any way you can get some asistnce thru the scool? i'm so very sory your parents are handling this so badly. while i dont' have any real advise for you, i just want you to know that maybe a brake from them isn't scch a bad idea.
telling your mom WHY you are sseeing your dad and if sshe has any sugestns. if not, then ya gota do what ya gota do. and it has no bearing on how mcch you love HER. they BOTH are your parents.

thinkin of you, ttruth.
sara