and how long have you known him? have you met anyone that he knows? family, friends, ex-girlfriends? NO ONE can rescue anyone else. i agree with patty and will go one farther...you are going in circles and there is a payoff for you in this. i don't know what it is, but something is making you feel better about him.......

no one here has been able to get through to you yet. and all of the advice has been thoughtful and caring. and i've noticed that you don't answer direct questions about him. take care.