I had a nice T once...felt good to spill my guts in person. But, she was useless, I dont need to learn about myself, I have insight akin to super powers, maybe its intelligence, maybe its years of practice, but its not something I need help with. Friendly reminders when I struggle are more than enough to set me straight,and I get that here Next: I dont believe in emotional archeology when I've made my peace, its not how I do things.I wanted to learn new coping skills,she didnt deliver,I quit,T isnt for me