I have answered all direct questions about him and I just explained about the payoff. You need to understand that it doesn't make sense to tell people what to do. That's not the point here. The point is to make people realize what they invest in a situation, and what they expect to get out of it. Then it is their decision.
I just said that rescuing is a bad idea, so why are telling me this???
I am sure that some people may warn against me and tell a man "red flags" are going up.