I had my first attraction in third grade. Reciprocated. Then, nothing for a couple of years. Then, another mild attraction, circa 7th grade. Likewise, reciprocated. Then, nothing... and then a serious attraction in high school which eventually led to my first sexual encounter at 19. So you can say that I was late. And even that first sexual encounter was without intercourse - oral sex only. Intercourse, not until 20 or even 21.
But I have always enjoyed being pursued by boys and still enjoy that being almost 42 - that is part of my core personality, I figure. And I think most women who have not been through horrific sexual abuse are like that. I have only been through mild childhood sexual abuse so I am OK, intact, and enjoy male attention.
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