I simply do not like sex. I never have. I take zoloft and now I could REALLY care less. My H asked was he really that bad. I told him no that was not it. When he asked me to explain the best way I could I told him. I like men. But God took a perfectly good man and put a penis on him and that I had issues w/. I have been a victon of rape. That may be part of why I don't like sex. I have been know to do it. I just have no desire. I to take care of my H's needs as best I can. I to was under the impression as a young adult that you had to have sex to have a man and to have him stay.

A friend of mine talks about how she wants it and her H doesn't and it drives her crazy. I think she must be the luckiest girl in the world. So we all have different needs.