1. have you met all of his friends?

2. have you met his family? all of them?

3. does he work? fulltime? how much does he make? do you work? fulltime?

4. is he married?

5. what is your payoff in this? i didn't feel that you gave a "real" answer.

6. you came and asked us how to make him love you...do you still want answers to that?

7. if you come here for validation that what you're doing is going to help, re-read tomi's post. i've been here with her for a very long time and what she says to you is the honest to god truth. listen to experience. also read patty's post again. i've been with her through hell and back. she knows what she's speaking of. she was a wreck when she came here.......all from a similiar relationship.

8. do you really want our help? or do you want to be angry because none of us will back down from the years of experience that we all share?

9. do you believe that three or four nights in bed with someone tells you all about love?

10. why do you really think he waffles and doesn't answer e.mails and cuts you off on MSN?

11. i'm quitting this thread for good. good luck. pat