http://blogs.psychcentral.com/mindfu...perfectionism/

http://blogs.psychcentral.com/mindfu...t-self-esteem/

http://www.mindfulnessproject.com/bl...elf-acceptance

I have been digging in the internets tonight. Yay more links for everybodyyyy YAAAaaaaaay no?

These are pretty good tho, yup they are all mindful, but all on self acceptance. Who doesn't struggle with this stuff ? Tho I do think stopping the struggle and moving forward on the acceptance of self, and life is a nice way to get past a lot of the suffering.

I have thought those thoughts before too, and came to the conclusion that Treehugger put forth. I would not be me. There is no comparison between yourself and others either. I just read somewhere.. that the comparison is fundamentally wrong because even if we were similar we are not sameness. And cannot be for obvious reasons. I would then say that is an inappropriate comparison do in the first place, scientifically speaking of course .