It will be ok Suga! Even Roadie said so.. she knows about this stuff. She is wise.

Sounds like it will be ok, really. I don't think he would tell your parents, I am sure he knows. All the people around him don't have to know anything, any reason will do to be anywhere. A simple she went ___ will do. Or he can say nothing at all.

You owe yourself some time to work at you and some rest as well. Make sure YOU tell THEM what you need ok. If they offer what you don't need.. say so. It's important to tell them, and that your needs are met. Since your T wants you to go, that should not be a problem at all. Can she go with you?