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Originally Posted by landskaperdan
Hmmm... there is a cost to being honest and trying your best to help someone. Once you have put it out there, there is a nervous feeling, where you can't wait for a response to see if you have burnt a bridge or not.
I posted a response, to a young, young teenage girl, about sex. I only tried to guide them, the same way I guide my own girl that is nearly her age. but in doing so, I don't know. I said nothing wrong, but I am a guy. I'm not comfortable with guys talking to young girls about things like this, but the dad in me took over...
I don't know how well received I will be. I sure hope they heard me, but the cost of what I said may be another burnt bridge. I don't know. This all makes me anxious. Someone needed to say what I did though... ESPECIALLY if no one had told her before.
guess that's a chance I have to take. maybe i'm the first person to tell her that, or maybe I'll just come across as being a creepy dude. I'm NOT creepy, it's just a sensitive subject and I may have crossed a line. IDK.
But what I said was true and it was good. Ugh... why did it have to come from me though.
like I said, I am a dad and I felt protective. So if your reading this, that was my intention.
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Dan you're one of the coolest guys I know...there aint nuthin' creepy about you mate!
you're a bloke...you're a man ...and a boy!
creative as hell and ingenious...
and you care alot about others...pretty damn cool Dan!