The guy I lost my virginity to was a long time boyfriend. He didn't pressure me. One night when he was stoned he wanted it do more. I told him I loved him and that stoned was not the way I wanted my first time to be. The following weekend he was great. He took me back to his house and everything was perfect. I thanked him for not being wasted. I lost my virginity and it was no huge deal but I knew that I did the right thing by standing up for me. He was kind and gentle. He was slow and reasuring. He was a great teacher. I found him 3 weeks later w/ another girl. I walked in on them. She ended up pregnent. They are now married and have 5 kids. Good for them and glad it was not me.

In hind sight things didn't work out but I didn't compromise what I felt was right or wrong. He was kind and gentle and I can't thank of a more wonderful person to have lost it to. There were real feeling for one another there. I knew deep down since he was into pot and such that I could never really stay w/ him. So it didn't hurt to badly when he was not a part of my life anymore. I still see his brothers aound town, I see his parents every now and again and I see his wife and kids from time to time to. I have seen him around maybe twice in 15 years.

Not staying w/ him was right and so was sleeping w/ him as my first. Sorry this was long and I am not promoting one night stands. I'm just happy you found some one that is special to you and that is what really matters.