Thank you, SAWE.
I'm tired of being ignored and having everyone pretend like there isn't a problem. I didn't even realize how much it's been bothering me until it came up in t. I just figured that there was something wrong with ME. Previous attempts to stand up for myself have been met with more name calling, and ignoring me, etc. And other family members to pretend not to notice either. I just felt so validated when she said that what they are doing is not right. But I just kind of feel like saying... ok, so what now?