OK We are butting heads.. Or I think it is a power struggle with him.. I am not into power stuff.. I prefer to get along.. To make a long story short...... He pisses me off.........The renter /

I was putting up the Christmas tree upstairs for AJ and the renter said I was making too much noise and that I was invading his space and that I live downstairs and not upstairs. He has a lot of nerve.. Said the wrong things to this old lady....He ranted on that I need to show him some respect and that he lives he too..........

OK I rarely go upstairs..... AJ said I could go upstairs any time I wanted..So this isn't an issue with AJ.. But this isn't really an issue, I'm just *****en cuz what he said pissed me off....

The issue is.........I've been cooking breakfast and dinner for AJ... I make extra for the renter to be considerate..... So for the record I now won't cook for the renter.. or do his dishes......

Of course it would be a plain sin if I told him he couldn't have Thanksgiving food and leftovers.. And I would never ever do that to anyone.. WOuld be the most selfish thing anyone could do... SO he can have all he wants and that is ok for me.....

OK the issue is after Thanksgiving.. When I make the Frittata, which I might make for Wednesday... It is the size of a pie.....Again selfish for me to tell him not to touch it... Neither AJ or I could really eat it all......HOW can I let him eat food that is cooked in small "bulk" without my insides burning up with anger, because he doesn't appreciate anything.. He is a taker... A pure taker......I'd rather give the food to the dogs than to him.. omg that is cruel... But I don't know how to get my inner thoughs calm when I see him filling up his plate and walking off.. Like he is entitled to anything in the kitchen.........It is his attitude.. not mine.. I don't know how to deal with this.. How to let it go when he is so nasty to me and here he comes and takes what i cook....

I think this makes sense.. On how I feel.. I don't like him.. that is clear.. I'm not selfish... Just his attitude irks me......The sound of his flip flops floppen when coming downstairs my whole body tenses up......I need to learn what to do to get over this..

ANY IDEAS.... AJ needs the money, so the renter stays until he decides to move.... this sounds so stupid doesn't it....Even if it sounds stupid, I still don't like the renter.......ugh

OK so the renter is 34/ And AJ told the renter to throw in $100 each month for groceries .. BUT I DON"T come with that deal... Renter is to COOK what he wants...

Bottom line is == It is best not to piss off the cook!