GMA.. You made me smile.. when you said it is even hard living with folks you get along with.. Talk about truth.. Do believe you hit the nail on the head....

AJ told me to fight my own battles.. He doesn't want any part of it.. Told me I am a "big girl" and I had to "DEAL" with the renter.... Well, what comes to mind is the renter brought down a stack of dishes and he didn't wash them so I put them outside on the patio. When he wants a dish he is going to have to wash it...

We have the same issue with the "toilet paper" too.. Geesh, I don't even think he buys his own shampoo or body soap... Guess he thinks everything is his.. As all the renters have thought the same thing... The renter doesn't make much money.. In fact he has gained weight since he moved in... He has been eating good. He should realize that and appreciate it.. Not try to dictate...AJ was only trying to help him out by asking only $100 a month for food.. He eats twice a day and sometimes three times a day.. And he is always asking me, "do "WE" have any food made..Funny how our stuff is "we" and his stuff is "his".

I did tell the renter that if he wants to get along with me, he needs to stop riding my back....That we all live here... Not just him... You'd think he was the owner/landlord here.. rolls eyes

The renter was also using our laundry detergent and softner. AJ now hides it in my bedroom. The renter did buy some laundry detergent. Thinks he is worried we will use his..Surprised he didn't take it to his room..

GMA, it does feel good that someone else has been there and understands. I'm just sorry you had to go through it too...Need nerves of steel we need...

I was always polite to him... I ignore him now...He only starts stuff with me when AJ isn't here.....

I have to learn to not let him get under my skin.......And I'm not sure how I am going to do that........ugh