Perhaps she was simply trying to show care / concern ... As in most of us don't feel that anybody loves or cares about us which leads us to engage in our self injurious behaviors in the first place ... Hell, half the time we don't even love or care about ourselves ... Nevertheless, it's not as if suddenly we'll feel inspired to change even if somebody did love and care about us, because until we learn to do that for and to ourselves it's gonna be mighty difficult to change ingrained behaviors that we're used to engaging in in order to numb, distract and/or comfort ourselves from all the emotional pain we've been in ...

Wow ... !!! ... Where the heck did all that come from? ... Well, I know what I'm gonna be doing over the long weekend ... Examining everything I just wrote up there ... !!!