I can understand how you feel. My boyfriend would love to move to Vermont, Connecticut or New Hampshire, if he could get work up there, but I'd be much happier in New York or maybe California (not sure about the earthquakes, though). I am not telling you what to do, but I'll be honest about me: If I felt that homesick after a move, I'd break up and move back home. Find someone else who loves to live where I do.