Mystry, all you can do is try. Make that call. Explain to them why you left. No expectations either way. "Today is the first day of the rest of your life."

My youngest son and I have been on the outs for a while. His name is John. I've been listening to 60's music all day. I heard "Johnny Angel". Used to tease him with it. I took the chance that his wife wouldn't intercept it and sent him the lyrics. Told him I was thinking about him.

That's all we can do, it give it our best shot.

I wish you all the best, Hon.