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Originally Posted by NinaNina
No, exactly that is very true.
One main thing my boyfriend lied to me about was his past with a girl that he still kept in contact with and that we hung out with a bit together. I had asked him if they had ever been more than friends. He said they had always been just friends. I ended up finding out they had hooked up numerous times, the last time only a month before we met. Its not the fact that it happened that upset me, its the fact that he outright lied about it, obviously wanting to avoid me being upset or jelous. Men sometimes 
I'm sure its the same with your boyfriend, just trying to avoid any negative emotions from you. |
As a man, I find this additional information disconcerting. I mean, why lie about a relationship that happened before you were together? I'm one that believes in full disclosure of my past. I mean but then, I don't have a long history with girlfriends and dates so it's not difficult, but still... What concerns me is that anyone (male or female) is willing to lie about anything so readily. For me, it would make me wonder if there are other things that I haven't discovered them being dishonest about. That's a real warning flag for me, tbh.