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Originally Posted by My kids are cool
I have that reaction pretty often, and have been working on tempering it. My T says that I cannot expect everyone to react to things with the same level of generosity or compassion. I do have a pretty big negative reaction to selfishness.
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This. That's part of my problem. But once I read something and if my first thought in my head is "Oh that's so selfish" I can't try to look at it from a different perspective or try to have compassion for the individual who is trying to to make someone's issue about them. But then I was thinking that in turn makes me selfish because I blame myself that I can't have empathy for that person. Do you get it?