I am leaning towards telling him because then I do not have to arrange for bathroom visits to take me meds at dinnertime. That would be a convenience. Among other things. Plus, closeness. Plus, I can hedge a bit, preparing him for the fact that I am a bit bigger, although I agree with Blue in thinking that unlike D. he will NOT judge me based on appearance (or anything else). But I can say that as a result of all these psych drug trials I am overweight. Sort of killing several birds at once. Perhaps that would be overdoing it.