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Old Nov 21, 2012, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Anika. View Post
Well that's a good start Derek. And yes I dont know all the details, it was the wanting to cheat while she was in the hospital for a sui attempt that I had trouble wrapping my head around.. But I wouldn't know where the desire to do so comes from. I think exploring these things would be really good for you, and like DH said would help you find your own happiness in life as well, or contentness I prefer to call it.

Does your wife have a therapist as well?
Yes I have had alot of problems with cheating, I have started to push the feeling of needing it all the time so that I can start resisting temptation. So far I have not cheated on her in a month or so. Now we did have a agreement about this but personally it still made me feel like crap, i do my best to avoid temptation and do not plan to have any interaction with anyone during this period of separation. And yes she has a therapist. We both goto a place called Cumberland Mountain Mental Health, they provide meds, counseling, and case management.