More so I was getting at is.. where this need or want to do so stems from vs. pushing the feeling aside. And that I know would be highly personal. I am not asking, you don't have to share that, just wondering if you have explored the ins and outs of that with your therapist. Could be more to it than just plain hypersexuality that happens with bipolar.

I am glad you both have someone to talk to. Maybe couples therapy would be something in the future if things went that way, so you can work together. Marriage is hard and we don't interact together perfectly, and hopefully join the bridge and work together eventually.

I guess the only other thing I would really advise, is that if she is clear in her choice, or if she does decide to end it with divorce, that hard as it might be that you respect her choice. It would not be very easy for her to make this choice in the first place I would assume. I have been in a marriage with abuse and that choice was not easy, it took great strength.