Thanks for the suggestion of the record I've not listened to it yet, mainly because i think it will make me feel too sad?
I just heard of the girl Im mentioning - she's called it off. No reasons, just that i annoyed her when i called her the other night and asked to stay over. That was it basically. And thats that. She said to me, as cold as frost, "do you have any questions?" - like I was at a school. She doesn't think our personalities matched - I said I was calling because i actually cared about how she was feeling. she said that was nice, but not really helpful. Followed by 'so, you okay with us just being friends then?' and 'just call me when you feel like it'......im sitting her in amazement.