So... I much recommend it. Safety is unmatched. Quality of orgasms is better for me than from solo masturbation, probably because humans are social animals. Lastly, the satisfaction from the win-win situation: you do something that you would have been doing anyway, but, there is someone else who likes to see and hear it. Pure gain. And, to repeat, record safety. He is a low-tech person, like me - no vibrators in his 35 years. Just human touch. That is sort of unusual these days.