I have been experiencing a lot of rejection as I continue spending time on this dating website. I included a few facts about myself on my profile, first that I am unemployed and also that I have never had a girlfriend, and I think since putting these facts up, women have stayed away from me.
I can probably work on the job part, but there is no real way I can gain experience with women without first gaining their acceptance.
This whole experience has made me feel resentful of women, and I am attributing rejection to women I see walking down the street, thinking that they seem nice enough but they would reject me. And they probably would, I'm realistic enough to know that.
So what's this thread about? What's my question? I guess I want to know how you deal with rejection, and whether the level of rejection I am experiencing is normal or not. I have had women ask me out before, but that was a while ago, and it was in 'real life', not online, and I've always said 'no' in order to avoid talking to them. But on this dating website where I have been talking to women, I am being rejected all the time.
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