Thank you, both of you, I think you re right in saying she wanted to end the relationship but wasnt sure how to - for whatever reason she has in her mind. Im not sure what happened even, im puzzled. She wanted me to stay at her house, she invited me back she said she couldnt wait to see me...and then Bam! She didnt want me there. I dont think she can handle any emotion in her life, seriously. What i didnt add, was that she has a best friend who is in love with her and an ex boyfriend who is now one of her closest friends, who also told her he still had feelings for her - that was all over the weekend that she split with me. A lot to deal with, I admit....but I am here -ive been here from the start and ive been SOOOO cool about it all!! ive never judged her saying all this to me. Ive asked if i can do anything when shes told me she feels like poo or shes manic, or shes down. Anyway no good me going on, i just feel very rejected right now. But thank goodness for you lot and this forum - xxxx