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Originally Posted by cryingoutloud1
I know what mirrorring is im a social worker. and that is not waht she ment. she was saying No they weren't they where talking to you.How does she know that. PLus she is telling me her other clients stories and today she sent me an email to worn me of a virus but also attached my email address to her family and a bunch of others. The reason i know it is her family is because she has told me her brother and daughters name.
I am having a lot of anger /irritablity meaness issues. I am hurting people emtionally . i get so angery i shake and belittle people . The person i live with got mad because she said i make her feel crazy all the time. We have K cup and i filled it with water by taking the plastic out and porring by the counter with water instead of taking the jug and putting water in it. she had a it because i did it that way. thats not the way to do it she said. she also said that i had to put water in the hot chocolate but the water was in the spout part so the water would go in the cup . I couldn't figure out what she was talking about her nephew and i were trying to explain it to her and figure it out. she got so mad she went into her room and said "why are you making me feel crazy". I told him i don't want to go out to eat tomorrow for Thanksgiving because i can't i need time to be alone. he said she wont go with out you . I said ididn't want to go. and that im afraid well end up fighting. he said okay i will go to my mom's . I also sat there and be littled him he said he had sex with a girl that i know which turns out to be his second cousin 2x removed. he also thinks that it is okay for men to have sex with there stepdaughter if they are of age. i was so upset i was pi*sed and shaking. he left and i left the woman i live with a note saying peter doesn't want to go out to eat. She is going to blame it on me. I have never felt like this before . i have a list of symptoms for my doc when i see her and that includes the angry. i stopped taking the cymbalta gradually on my own. im also thinking about telling my doc. about my therapist and see what she says. I run like crazy to try to cope with my anger im up too 9 miles. but it only helps when i am running and sometimes for a few afterwards.
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yes it is legal for a step parent and their step daughter to have sex if the daughter is over 18 here in the USA.
its only illegal if the step daughter is ****under****18.
some states in the USA have their own age of consent but the national laws that are for the whole USA say the step daughter has to be at least 18 yrs old to legally be able to consent to having sex with their step parent.
As for everything that your therapist is doing you will need to discuss those issues with your therapist. let her know you are not comfortable with her emailing and placing your email address with her relatives....
here where I live and work in NY USA email accounts have an "Autofill" feature built in to the email account or the computer the person is using to send out emails.
example this laptop I am using has it, every time I come here to psych central and click on the log in box the computer automatically fills in the log in information box with the log in name I am using., the same with my email accounts. when I send an email I click on the box of who the email is gonig to and my computer automatically fills in the address of everyone on my friends and family list. I have to go back through each of those emails that the computer already put in the addresses and delete those I dont want the email to to. I did no realize for a long time my laptop had this setting and imagine my embarrassment when my mother received some bolder off color slightly pornographic jokes meant for my wife. my mother called me and asked why did you send me ****that****? I told my wife about it and she laughed and apologized she has set the laptop settings to activate the "autofill" when she sents out on email to lots of people. saves time instead of having to type in each individual email address of 30-40 people. now that I know "autofill" is activated I go through and make sure to take out the addresses of those I dont want to receive the email Im sending..
my point is maybe your therapist is on a computer that has the "autofill" feature activated and does not know it, so shes accidentally sending her work and clients emails and addresses that she does not intend to. my suggestion give her a chance to explain what happened so she can fix the situation.
as for the rest of your email only you can fix the problem between your friends or not. only you can decide whether you want to be around people that accuse you of making them feel crazy or not. one suggestion this may be a great topic for your therapy sessions if it continues to bother you. your therapist is in your own location and knows you so they would be the one best in helping you to stay around these people or move forwards away from people who cause you problems and stress.