Hey, YOU turned down the last woman who asked you on a date. Just WHO is rejecting WHOM here?

Take the negative information off of your profile as a start. It's kind of like saying, "Here I am, but you won't like me because I'm unemployed and can't get anyone to go out with me." Honestly, would YOU buy that product? That doesn't mean you have to lie, but how about "selling" your positive qualities? What positive qualities have you given about yourself?

Personally, you'd have better luck if you were to get actively involved in something you are interested in: a club, a service organization, a church, a committee of some sort. Actually MEET people who share your interests in something. Get involved in real life out there. You will start out with a commonality; that's where relationships start, not on some on-line, anonymous dating site. Yes, those work for some people, but the people I know who used them and successfully found a relationship were outgoing, involved, confident individuals to start off with. They didn't "need" the website, but they used it as a tool in their toolkit.

Work on developing some real-life relationships, with both men and women. Your confidence with improve and so will your desirability down the road.