Hi Rachel...you have to go with what you know in your heart. It sound like you have a good idea that something wasn't as it should be and if you have confronted then you have to stand by your own heart.

Don't listen to him or anyone else who wants you to think you are wrong somehow. You know the truth and it wil set you free.

It sounds to me like you need to see a doctor about your physicall condition. Years of stress and anxiety, especially if kept hidden, can do damage to our bodies.. I am a living example of that.

It might be a good idea to start journaling your pains and aches.. anything your body is telling you so that you can tell a doctor about everything.

Meanwhile, keep talking and you will find your way to healing from the pain caused you in your childhood.I wish you the best.