Like Harley says, it would require a lot of communication to get what you want, because what your asking him is to be your master and punish you, but from his perspective, punishment can mean a form of abuse and a sign that he does not care for you and treat you with respect. You're asking a lot from him just to say "punish me, it gets me off".

You don't have to give up your submission, but you have to make it clear to him what you want and that the punishment makes him happy. But the odds are, he likely will not respond with wanting to hurt you or to be forceful with you.