i read here sometimes how people get angry or upset when there T cancels appointments for holidays or personal reasons. do you ever let you T know you are upset .or do you just keep it to yourself

i don't always miss my T or get upset when she isn't there for whatever reason. but sometimes i do get upset for what ever reason. i have never said anything about it to her .although she has brought it up at times that i might be mad at her. i always shake my head no

i figure if she isn't there it is because of a reason and i can do nothing about it so what good would it do say something it might just add conflict or make her feel bad.

i also would love to be able to keep ignoring those feelings also so i can deal with her not being there and i can still be OK.

so anyway just wondering if you tell and if so how has your T responded