I think you know already that I tell my T almost everything, so of course I tell her when I miss her, or when I'm upset that we're missing an appointment, or how hard it is for me when she goes on vacation. I want her to know how I feel because she's the main person I tell my feelings to, whether they are about her or someone else.

I think your T would welcome your sharing feelings about her with her, but it's not something you HAVE to do. It's scary because it makes your relationship closer and more real. My T has always been willing to accept my feelings about her. If she's going away and I'm angry, she acknowledges my concerns and tries to help me cope.